Real Life and Book Life Differences

 

 Do we live the same life we read in books and different kinds of stories? 

Maybe not or maybe some people think the answer to this question is 'yes'.This is a long discussion but we will take a brief look at it here.

My Opinion about Life:

I don't think we live the life we've seen in books or movies.Life has a reality of its own and this reality is faced by a living person in a new form every day.

In this way, one's life is going through a test of good and bitter experiences.Because the question is whether it is possible for a person to learn to drive just by reading booklets and watching a few videos or driving a car properly.I succeed.Of course, this is not possible.In any case, he has to learn practically everything.He has to face small accidents.Makes mistakes, has difficult and painful experiences.Then learns from them and eventually one day becomes a driver.

We also spend our whole lives reading as many philosophical books and watching as many motivational videos as we can about living life.But we are living life as it is on a daily basis.

Why is that?

 This is because we are so trapped in our society and community system that we cannot think outside the box.Isn't it a common thing that even today in our country, on the occasions of happiness and marriage.Our aunts and uncles get lost and we waste half of our function in celebrating them.

Haven't people who cry have read these books that anger should be removed.Anger should be forgiven if it is someone else's fault and apology should be apologized if it is their own.But it doesn't happen.

Since we are captives of ego and whatever happens.We will react in the same way.We are also backbiting and abusing.While we are memorizing the etiquette in the books word for word.But where there is ego and anger.

What about the books and the order of life written in a few lines? 

Where do you remember!

The friendship that we call the invaluable relationship.About which we have read thousands of poems in books and texts, is also the friendship that we make or maintain based on three things:

•  Trust
• Benefit
• Loss

It turns out that your secret has been revealed.You will not befriend this person again.We do not make friends without thinking that friendship will benefit or harm us.

Why is this? 

This is the reality of life that we constantly face.We just shape life in the light of our good and bad experiences.

Purpose Our practical experiences, mistakes and shortcomings determine what our life will be like.While book life is far away from us.